
A Live with Order, often known as a Residence Order, provides official recognition of the individual with whom a child should reside. This could be with one parent (a Sole Residence Order) or with both parents at different times (a Shared Residence Order). These orders can be applied for by parents, grandparents or guardians.
Upon the breakdown of a relationship, it is up to the parents to decide with whom the child shall live. In the event an agreement cannot be reached, the individual may apply to the court for its determination on the issue. In such cases, the primary consideration of the court will be the child’s welfare; ensuring that any decision made is in the child’s best interests.
If you are granted a Lives with Order, it will not affect your child’s relationship with the non-resident parent nor will it take away their parental responsibility. Therefore, you will be required to get their consent for any major decisions pertaining to the child. These include moving abroad with your child, what religion the child will be raised in and changing the child’s name.
In the event the non-resident parent fails to provide their consent, the court will make a decision after considering the relevant issues.
Legal Aid is available to assist individuals with the costs of obtaining a Live with Order; providing an individual is in receipt of benefits such as Universal Credit and has evidence of being a victim of domestic abuse perpetrated against them or the child by the non-resident parent.
Syma Tayyab is a Solicitor in the Family and Childcare department based in the Birmingham office at Duncan Lewis Solicitors. She has experience in a wide range of private children and injunction proceedings, including: